HUGS! You’re just sexually frustrated.

An itch you cannot seem to scratch…

Have you ever been in a situation where you have an itchy back but your hands cannot reach the right spot to scratch? It is really frustrating, right? It turns out, you’re looking at that corner wall, trying to hide as you rub your back against it. Aaaaaa… such a relief!

But would you believe me if I tell you that there’s this ‘itchiness’ that can’t seem to scratch –sexually? Yes, sexually. 

That moment you are about to pop pop, but unfortunate things happen that made you stop stop. Wooh! I can’t really imagine how discomforting the feeling is. 

Sexual Frustration. What exactly is it?

A clinical sex counselor from Richmond, Virginia, USA, Eric M. Garrison, says, “Regardless of gender and sexuality, almost everyone will experience sexual frustration at some point in their life.”

Sexual frustration manifests differently: lack of arousal, lack of orgasm, the feeling of shame with the kind of sex you’re having, not having the type of sex you want to experience, and many other reasons are totally normal!

Often than not, our thinking regarding sex is influenced by the mainstream media, says Garrison. It makes us think that we, as sexual beings, should experience mind-blowing sex all the fucking time, which adds frustration and anxiety once we don’t experience astonishing sex.

Now, you’re probably asking where the reason for sexual frustrations is coming from. 

Here’s to know why…

According to Garrison, there are a lot of possible reasons why people experience sexual frustrations. 

It’s your body. Sometimes, a number of injuries, chronic pain, certain diseases, addictions, and sometimes gynecological issues may hinder one’s ability to have sex or orgasm, which can lead to frustration. These issues are needed to be addressed with medication prescribed by your physician. 

Another reason is your brain. The level of stress and anxiety, especially when you are having your attacks in the middle of your session, can wreak havoc on your libido. 

And sometimes, it’s about an ongoing issue of communication. There are some couples out there that every time a partner is sexually frustrated, their tendencies are they haven’t communicated well enough regarding their sexual desires and leave their partner hanging. 

After all, when it comes to this topic of sexual frustration, we must realize what Socrates means by ‘Know thyself”. We must recognize what we want, what we need, and what we desire, and practice properly addressing it to our sexual partner or to our sexual toys if that’s the case. 

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